How One Smoker Quit

A few weeks ago, we posted an item about an ad executive in Australia named James Hurman who auctioned off his smoking habit, agreeing to pay a steep fine (about $800) for every cigarette he smoked after the auction closed. He wound up selling the contract, he writes, “for NZ $300 [about US $240] to somebody at the agency where I work — someone close enough to know if I owe them!”

Hurman had tried to quit smoking many times but was particularly keen in this case because he and his wife were expecting their first child.

Here’s a follow up note from Hurman about some interesting behavior modification that took hold once the auction was over. While Hurman represents a sample set of just 1, his story may well be instructive for the billions of us who routinely struggle to change our own behaviors.

Hi Stephen,

I wanted to write you and let you know how my campaign went … I think perhaps you’ll be interested in what’s happened since.

Obviously the idea was to give myself such a great disincentive that I’d be able to overcome the cravings and choose not to smoke cigarettes.

I’ve quit many times in the past and found it difficult, exhibiting each time the usual symptoms of annoyingly persistent cravings and irritability, my resolve breaking pretty easily around alcohol and late nights.

This time, however, the symptoms didn’t arrive.

The first week, when I would usually be highly irritable, I was completely unperturbed. The cravings, albeit there, were minor. The first month went by unusually smoothly.

Then on the 2nd of May I had a night out that I’d been worried about — I work in advertising and we had our industry awards night which is a huge blind-drunk-and-out-til-six-in-the-morning style affair. In terms of risk, this was high. I was kind of sure I’d either falter or have a massive internal struggle keeping my drunk self in check.

When I came to the next day I realized I hadn’t been even slightly tempted. I was out all night with smokers and as inebriated as I’ve ever been, but I hadn’t had to talk myself out of having a cigarette once. The cravings simply weren’t there — which breaks with my past experiences of quitting.

Subsequently, the past two weeks I’ve had two similar nights out (I’ve a baby on the way and I’m getting it out of my system!) and the same thing’s happened — been absolutely tanked and hanging around smokers but haven’t been the slightest bit tempted.

Same goes for during the day when I’m sober.

Thinking about it I wonder whether the scale of the disincentive has had a deeper psychological effect than simply giving me a reason to resist the cravings — it’s actually removed the cravings themselves.

Which, as I understand it, is possible given that the actual physical dependency only lasts a few days, and then the cravings are purely an act of the mind.

Could it be that the cravings only manifest in a context in which the mind considers it not-immediately-detrimental to smoke?

Could it be that when you introduce immediate danger, the mind, instead of bothering to consciously rationalize its way around the craving, just extinguishes the craving?

The other answer would be that I’m so desperate for my idea to work that I’m talking myself into it!

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COMMENTS: 44

  1. Cris says:

    Never understimate the power of becoming a father…

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  2. Barb says:

    I was trying to buy a home and so I started keeping close track of my finances (much more so than usual). I realized that I was spending $1200 per year on my smoking habit (and I only smoked 10 cigs per day)! I was so appalled that I quit instantly and haven’t craved it since! I’m coming up on my 2 year anniversary and can proudly say I have never lapsed.

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  3. Barb says:

    Oops – forgot to add Congrats to James! It’s hard to quit and I’m glad to hear it’s going well so far.

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  4. B says:

    Scott Adams mentioned this some time back:

    People who use hypnosis to quit smoking and quit overeating have about the same success as people who use other methods. In other words, it works less than half the time. The reason is simple. Hypnosis can only help you do what you want to do. If you want a cigarette more than you want to quit, hypnosis is useless. So is every other method. And if you want to quit more than you want to smoke, almost any method, including hypnosis, can make that quitting feel easier.

    Original article: http://dilbertblog.typepad.com/the_dilbert_blog/2007/07/hypnosis.html

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  5. Tobin says:

    I had smoked for a little over a year. I couldn’t stop. For some reason, every time I stopped, I would just go to a bar and have one anyway. Then, I would have another since it didn’t matter anymore. My girlfriend said we were over if I smoked again. I already wanted to quit, but after this incentive I have now noticed that I don’t even have cravings anymore. This has shown me that I care about the relationship more than anything else. I thought it was interesting that I really haven’t had any cravings though.

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  6. Bruce says:

    Don’t think you’ll get off that easy. Probably you’ll get some delayed psychological cravings down the road, and that’s when the real trouble will start. You may beat them back for awhile but they’ll return. You’ll go through a World War of desire, but if you make it through, you *might* have a chance. Get ready!

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  7. NSK says:

    I had tried to quit a few times back when I was in college, but somehow never seemed to completely stay away. The desire to quit was always due to a defiance against people telling me its impossible to quit smoking. One fine day (about 20 years ago), I woke up and thought to myself “enough is enough” .. and since that day, haven’t smoked. I feel good that I have been able to defy the “its impossible” school of thought. But, more importantly, it also has taught me that the makers of Nicorette (and the like) are engaging in day-light robbery (makers of cigarettes are engaging in day-light murder)!!

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  8. Aussie Kiwi says:

    He’s not an Aussie, he’s a Kiwi. Oops!

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