I am always surprised at how easily, and cheaply, we humans lie.
Have you ever been in a conversation about, say, a particular book and been tempted to say you’ve read it even though you haven’t?
I am guessing the answer is yes. But why would anyone bother to lie in such a low-stakes situation?
The book lie is what you might call a lie of reputation: you are concerned with what other people think of you. Of the many reasons that people lie, I have always thought that the lie of reputation is the most interesting — as opposed to a lie to gain advantage, to avoid trouble, to get out of an obligation, etc.
A new paper by the economists Cesar Martinelli and Susan W. Parker offers some fascinating insights into lies of reputation. It is called “Deception and Misreporting in a Social Program,” and will be published soon in the Journal of the European Economics Association.
Martinelli is a Peruvian-born, U.C.L.A.-educated economic theorist who teaches at I.T.A.M. in Mexico City; Parker is an American-born economist, educated at Yale, who also teaches in Mexico City, at C.I.D.E..
Their paper takes advantage of a remarkably rich data set from Oportunidades, a Mexican welfare program. It records the household goods that people say they have when they are applying for the program and then it also records the household goods that are actually found to be in that household once the recipient’s application has been accepted. Martinelli and Parker worked with data from more than 100,000 applicants, representing 10 percent of the applicants interviewed that year (2002).
It turned out that a lot of people underreported certain items that they thought might exclude them from getting benefits. Below is a list of underreported items followed by the percentage of recipients who owned a certain good but who said they didn’t:
Car (83.10 percent)
Truck (81.71)
Video recorder (79.73)
Satellite TV (73.91)
Gas boiler (73.12)
Phone (73.12)
Washing machine (53.46)
That’s not very surprising: you might expect people to lie to gain the advantage of a welfare benefit. But here’s the surprise. Below is a list of household items that were overreported — i.e., which applicants said they had but in fact did not (again, followed by percentages):
Toilet (39.07 percent)
Tap water (31.76)
Gas stove (28.56)
Concrete floor (25.41)
Refrigerator (12.05)
So 4 out of 10 applicants without a toilet said they had one. Why?
Martinelli and Parker chalk it up to embarrassment, plain and simple. People who were desperately poor were also apparently desperate to not admit to a welfare clerk that they lived without a toilet or running water or even a concrete floor. This is one of the most amazing lies of reputation I can imagine.
It should be noted that there is a lot of incentive to lie to get into the Oportunidades program, for the cash benefit equals about 25 percent of the average applicant household’s expenditures. Furthermore, the penalty for underreporting was not very strong: many of the people found to be underreporting goods like satellite TV’s and trucks were were not kicked out of the program. You could argue that the penalty for overreporting, meanwhile, was greater since it might mean being excluded from the program in the first place — which makes the overreporting even more costly.
The Martinelli-Parker paper may have broad implications for not only poverty programs but any kind of project where the data are self-reported. Think about the typical survey on drug use, sexual behavior, personal hygiene, voting preference, environmental behavior, etc.
Here’s what we once wrote, for instance, in an article about the lack of hand hygiene in hospitals:
In one Australian medical study, doctors self-reported their hand-washing rate at 73 percent, whereas when these same doctors were observed, their actual rate was a paltry 9 percent.
We’ve also written about the subjects that online daters are most likely to lie about, and the risky business of election polling — especially when the issue of race is involved.
But as often as we or anyone else writes about the perils of self-reporting, the Martinelli-Parker paper really gives the whole topic a foundation to stand on. Not only does it deliver a surprising insight into why we lie, but it is also a sobering reminder to naturally distrust self-reported data — at least until some scientists enable us to peer into one another’s minds and see what’s really going on there.
I am interested in hearing from readers what kinds of lies you tell, and why.
[Note: I'll be discussing this topic early tomorrow (Tues.) morning on the new public-radio program The Takeaway.]

I want to know why people lie (and insert themselves) in the retelling of Urban Legends).
Completely mystifying behavior.
Note that the overreported things are quite basic – meaning the risk of being excluded from the program for having them was not that big, so the cost was small.
It would be instructive to see over- and underreporting rates for the same items, methinks.
If you look at these results and apply the conclusions to the trendy happiness research reported on this blog, the results seem a bit sketchy. How do we optimize something that will always be self-reported.
I lie quite a bit just to save time and be polite.
Often in conversation people will make an assumption, and confirming their assumption involves only saying yes, where as explaining the reality takes quite a bit longer. Usually in conversations like these, people aren’t all that interested in hear the actual truth, they are just trying to make polite small talk, so telling them the long involved truth really traps them into a much longer conversation then they had intended and gives them more information then they were really interested in. Also people sometimes ask questions just as a lead in to a story they want to tell, so answering in an unexpected way derails that.
Example:
Question: Are you a vegetarian?
Lie: Yes.
Real answer: Not really. I don’t like most meat because I didn’t eat it growing up because we were really poor and now I don’t digest it well and it gives me a stomach ache. I kind of like bacon though. I wouldn’t cook it myself, but if I was at a restaurant I might order it (but not if you were there because I just told you I was a vegetarian).
Response to lie: Oh that’s interesting, my sister is a vegetarian too and this one time…
Response to real answer: Oh… look at the time…
I never lie about having read a book, seen a movie, etc, because there’s a high probability of my being asked to prove it by being asked “What did you think about the part where…”
When I’m horrendously late for something I occasionally lie and say it’s *sooner* than it is, in the hopes the cabbie will take pity on me and use that secret shortcut he knows.
In various customer-service jobs I’ve had I frequently lied to pass blame on to “computer problems” or “the kitchen” or anyone else but me. Especially if tipping is involved.
“How are you doing?”
“Fine, thanks.”
People lie everyday, just to make the day go smoothly.
I have to wonder if over-reporting of toilets and floors is not for a different reason. Many welfare type programs are for a certain type of target family or individual. So, for example, someone who lives in real house vs. a shanty (temp structure, likely not legal) is more likely to get in to this kind of program vs. some other. Further, if the payments are based on a percentage of expenditures, then water/gas/electricity bills and other such costs would be an advantage to include as they would be covered.
As to the home vs. shanty, I was shocked to find that this is in fact a real issue. Many programs are based on “sustaining a viable way of life” to stop families dropping into homelessness, etc. It is not that the people with the money are unsympathetic, it is that they are focused on what they can help based on experience. Presumably other programs exist for homelessness and shanty-town dwellers, etc.
men lie about height?
Test of honesty in a woman: Look at her driver’s license>
I am a woman and my height and weight on my driver’s license is correct. I think that tell. My hair and eye color are also correct and match that of my genetic makeup.
A woman who doesn’t lie probably is a loner and doesn’t hang out with a group of other women. They might not be able to take that kind of honesty.